Friday, August 31, 2012

Steve Martin Serenade

My first memory of Steve Martin is watching him in the Father of the Bride. My mother was cranky they remade a Liz Taylor classic, but I didn’t care. I was excited to be going to the movies with my girlfriends. Pre-teen PG movie dates were the precursor to “Girls Night Out.” I remember thinking I wanted George Banks to be my dad.
Ever since then, I have been following Mr. Martin’s career. When he published Shop girl I was beyond excited to read it. It became yet another book that has shaped a little bit of my soul.
When I discovered Steve Martin would be the season opener for the Gallo Center for the Arts, I jumped at the chance for tickets; purchasing four so I could take my former in-laws. Since my father-in-law is a musician and my mother-in-law is the generation that remembers Mr. Martin on the Smothers Brothers, and we all have an appreciation for blue grass, I figured they would be perfect theatre companions.
When the Steep Canyon Rangers and Steve Martin walked on to stage, the Rogers Theatre erupted with cheer. Without hesitation, the show began. Mr. Martin and company moved seamlessly into performing music with a dash of comedy.
While the theatre was large (and sold out) the performance was intimate. The dynamics between Steve Martin and the Steep Canyon Rangers filled the room; playing such songs as “Go Away, Stop, Turn around, Come Back” and “Atheists Don’t Have No songs” from the new album Rare Bird Alert.  The crowd was engaging and incredibly fun to be a part of. Steve Martin is talented, truly a renaissance man. He announced he began playing the banjo at age 16 and his passion for it shows. Every song performed, he had written. It became very clear that these pieces were created with a great deal of thought, inspiration and care. He even explained what inspired him to create. I love that Steve Martin is still inspired to challenge himself and grow in all forms of art. His motivation and what appears to be hard work shows in the incredible performance I attended last night.
In the middle of the show, Mr. Martin excused himself so that we may enjoy the music of the Steep Canyon Rangers sans Steve; a band from North Carolina who existed long before partnering with Steve Martin. The talent of this group dripped off stage. Two songs was not enough; we were left wanting more. One does not have to be an actor to give a passionate performance and this group had the heart and soul of every instrument played. The movements of their hands, heads and feet suggested they were one with music creating an environment filled with feelings of warmth of the heart.
When Mr. Martin announced their final song was to be performed next, an audible sigh engulfed the crowd. Once finished, Mr. Martin and Company bowed and left the stage, leaving behind a crowd on their feet screaming, begging for me.
To our wonderful delight, the men obliged and we were serenaded with two more beautifully crafted songs.
As we exited the theatre, the debate began: Should we buy cd’s here or online. The line to the merchandise was long and we all feel that 10pm is too late to be awake and the online purchase would arrive in only 2 days time. As we stepped closer to the lobby (we were on the third level balcony), I announced I was getting in line. The rest followed suit.
I’m glad I did. I was able to interact with the violinist of the Steep Canyon Rangers and my cd, The Rare Bird Alert was signed by all members of the group, including Steve Martin. And while it may have been cheaper to purchase online, I would not have received an autographed copy, signed that day, so says the violinist, nor would I have interacted with him.
It makes a pretty good story to tell my kid the next day.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

I am Very Disappointed in Melky Cabrera

I know my opinion in the matter involving Melky Cabrera’s 50 game suspensions without pay (with only 45 games left in the regular season) doesn’t matter. Lucky for you, I will share it anyway.
My family is band of baseball enthusiasts; more accurately, Grandpa and I are enthused and everyone else just tolerates us. We all gather around the TV and watch nearly every game. Day games are a bit more difficult to view, since we all have day jobs.
I am now faced with a dilemma. How to explain Melky’s suspension to my son, an avid Giants fan and a baseball player himself, that one of his favorite players is off the team? My child will not be satisfied with the simple “Melkman was suspended.” He will want to know why and what rules were violated to warrant the suspension.
I supposed I could use this incident as a valuable teaching opportunity. Or I could just not mention it at all and see if he notices Cabrera’s absence; which he no doubt will.
Outside of being a disappointed parent, I am a disappointed fan. While I cannot assume that players never use performance enhancers (legal or otherwise) the knowledge one uses takes the fun out of baseball, or any sport for that matter. This is a crucial time for the Giants. This morning the Giants were tied for first in the NL West and with the results from afternoons game, are now a half game back.
No one can for sure say what is going to happen with the rest of baseball’s regular season, but if the Giants fall further behind everyone will be wondering if the lack of Melky is the reason why.

Monday, August 13, 2012

My First Real Love

I constantly complain about where I live; the lack of culture nearly kills me. In a recent conversation with a friend who fled California (like most of my friends) I realized just how much I love California. I proudly tote my California Girl brand. I'm only partially annoyed when people assume my tan skin is because I live in California.

This friend had moved to one of the fly over states; where the cost of living is cheap and wages are cheaper. And the more this friend highlighted the perks of said fly over state, I started becoming anxious. I couldn't quite pinpoint it at the time. Later, I realized the idea of being a three days drive away from the Pacific Ocean makes me anxious. So, I explained to my friend, I love the ocean too much to leave it; the beach in December is my favorite past time. To which she replied, "We have beaches." While I scoffed at her comparison, I decided she had a point.












While visiting family in Minnesota, the land of 10,000 lakes, we went to the beach. I find it very important to point out that the idea of Minnesotans calling their beaches a beach is a disgrace to all beaches. The sand was painful to walk in, the water was just standing there and the air did not smell fresh and clean. And since the family I was visiting is originally from the East Coast, they understood my disappointment. The rest of the trip when people asked if I had visited the beach, I replied with, "Yes, I went to the lake." To its defense, the scenery was very beautiful.

My oldest friend in California pointed out that I should not be a snob about beaches. I agree.





The Pacific Ocean is just one reason why I love California so much.

Havin' a heatwave

My affection for this town comes in waves; one day, I am happy and in love with where I live. Then, I read a book, usually based in New York, or on the East Coast somewhere, and I long to know life outside this valley town. Maybe one day I will…just not while my boy is little.

Sunday, August 12, 2012

The Expectations of 28

It's tragic when one knows who she wants to give her heart to and it's unwanted.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Summer...

I know summer is coming to an end by the amount of books I read in a week...